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Why contact NeverEver.ca ?
Because secrets and the unspoken are poisons that paralyze life.
The isolation and fear that someone will find out your secret is always inside you, preventing you from living.
Because you hate yourself, you fight your desire alone and you isolate yourself more and more. Your secret is getting too intrusive.
Because without friends, isolation leads to great distress, loss of self-esteem, and the feeling that you have nothing more to lose and that is when the irreparable can be done.
To prevent child sexual abuse, it is important not to let yourself sink into despair, to realize your self worth and come out of isolation.
Your life is not reduced to the label "pedophile".
Shedding light on what you are truly worth is our goal so that you have the will to live a balanced life while controlling your attractions.
This can only be done by accepting dialogue, by sharing with people who have or who have had the same problem and who are ready to reach out to you during the group discussions that we organize while respecting the sensitivity of each one, that is You!
Who is it for?
1- For people, mostly men, who have sexual fantasies about children or adolescents, so that they do not act out. NeverEver also aims to prevent child sexual abuse. Suddenly, in adolescence, you realize your sexual attractions, it is not the young women or the young men that you look at the swimming pool but it is impossible for you to take your eyes off the little girl or the little boy who play on the edge. You are drawn to child pornography, it disgusts you sometimes but you come back to it over and over again, with a painful feeling mixing shame and guilt. And “how am I going to behave if I ever have kids?” Is that a question that haunts you? Know that your case is neither isolated nor rare, but it remains a taboo subject difficult to share.
2- For you too, victims of sexual abuse in your childhood or adolescence. The child is confident and can be easily abused by people in authority, parent, friend, teacher ... You didn't dare talk about it or maybe you weren't believed, you were laughed at. Shame and guilt set in, you think it's your fault, that you haven't been lucky in life. It's hard in such a state of mind to get over it, to refuse to be a victim over and over again. Raise your head and prove to the world that you are much better, through an outstretched hand, empathetic listening, loving support. Everything can change in your life.